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人生常懷感恩心,生活才會更美好Nov. 25, 2009
落葉在空中飛舞,那是在感恩大地對她的滋養;白雲在天空中飄蕩,那是在感恩藍天對她的哺育。有了感恩,才有了這個百花齊放的自然景色;有了感恩,才有了這個多姿多彩的美好世界;有了感恩,才讓人生懂得了生命的真諦。

知 恩圖報是我們中華民族的一種傳統美德,而新時期的感恩精神已經不僅僅再是狹隘的個人情感,而是“飲水思源”的博大情懷。當我們剛剛來到這個世界上,什麼都 還沒來得及做的時候,我們就已經開始享受著前人帶給我們的物質和精神上的成果了。這就需要我們每一個人,都要有一顆感恩的心。鴉有反哺之義,羊有跪乳之 恩。人有心懷感恩,才會珍惜現擁有,珍惜幸福。人的一生,不能忘記父母養育之恩、老師傳道之恩、師傅傳技之恩,朋友相幫之恩、夫妻相伴之恩、自然滋潤之 恩……生命當懷有一顆感恩的心,人生才因此而幸福快樂,讓自己的精神變得崇高而富有;生命才因此而精彩燦爛,讓自己的生命變得珍貴而美麗。

人,生 活在浮躁喧囂的社會中,真正體悟幸福與快樂的真諦、發現自己的人生價值,是一個知足的、會感恩的人。因為他領悟到幸福不等於金錢,幸福不等於情愛,幸福不 是香車寶馬、功名利祿,幸福不是隨心所欲、無法無天。幸福是一種心靈的感覺,是有靈性的東西,是需要有微妙對應的東西。只有懂得收藏才會懂得品味,只有懂 得品味才會抓住幸福。如果我們自己從心靈裡生產陽光、花朵、微笑、柔情美麗的語言,與人共享,才能擁有一個美麗的人生。生命的歸宿,其實是自己源於美麗善 良之心。

我有一個朋友,在去年贊助了一個7歲的聾啞少女2800元,讓她圓了夢寐以求的讀書之夢。或許對其他人來說,是微不足道的,可對於這個7 歲的聾啞少女或許會成為她人生的轉折點……錢雖不多,卻讓閃爍著人性的善良與美麗。這2800元的資助者不是所謂的有錢人、慈善家,而是一個家境並不富裕 的人。可聾啞少女的父母為了謝恩,幾次找到報社,懇求報社領導一定要感謝行善之人。

我的朋友知道此事後,內心甚感內疚地說“自己做了一點微不足道 的事,可他們還這樣感激自己,實在過意不去。我的行善是一種觸動。那種貧寒,特別是那種期望,深深地觸動了自己。其實自己真的沒做什麼,而且,在與他們的 接觸中,自己也學到了很多東西,面對貧困時他們所表現出來的堅強和不屈服,正是自己所缺少的。在自己力所能及的時候,為什麼不伸出手,去幫助那些深陷絕境 的人呢?也許,就是有時自己的一點點善心,就可以為他們帶去希望的曙光……”

是的,這便是人性的美麗和善良。行善者沒有高傲的姿態,對方的感激反而讓他心生愧疚;受者則懷著一顆感恩的心,用自己所能想到的所有方法去表達他們的感謝。

中國有句俗語“滴水之恩,當湧泉相報”,就是一種樸實的感恩文化。對於助人者來說,不求對方感恩與回報。但對於被助者來說,常念他人滴水之恩,對善行報以善行。而若是知恩、報恩的事情越來越少,這個社會將變得充滿冷酷和無情。
知 恩圖報,人更不能缺少一顆感恩之心。要對生命、對生活、對大自然、對一切美好的事物心存感恩,使靈魂得到不斷淨化。感恩可以怡養性情。一個時刻懷有感恩之 心的人,心底坦然,陽光燦爛,從不會覺得世界欠了自己什麼;相反會為自己無以回報這個世界的慷慨而內疚不安。感恩的人一輩子生活在陽光下,即使在黑暗中也 可以從容穿越這黑暗。

在塵世喧囂社會裡,只要自己淡泊名利,常懷感恩之心,就會知足常樂,內心充滿陽光,享受人間的精彩,你的生活,每天都是過著 幸福快樂的日子了。如果自己身體健康,沒有疾病,那你的生活質量就更好;如果你一生中沒有遇上戰爭的危險、牢獄的孤獨、酷刑的折磨和飢餓的滋味,那你是幸 福快樂的人生了;如果你家有四世同堂,婚姻幸福,和諧生活,那你是享受人間之樂了。如果你既有物質豐裕,又有精神生活豐富,那你的人生就更美麗了。惟有感 恩,才會知足。當你對生活充滿了感激時,你會覺得自己得到了很多很多,你會覺得自己是可愛的,因為命運並沒有拋棄你,縱然生活中有風有雨,你也不會害怕, 因為你有那麼多愛你的人會支持你……

人要學會感恩,懂得感恩,人生才會無煩惱,自己的心境會因感恩而舒展,相貌會因感恩而美麗,人格也會因感恩而 昇華,事業更會因感恩而順利。會感恩的人不會感到失意,會感恩的人常常充滿生機與活力。如果你有一個很好的工作,有一個幸福和諧的婚姻,孩子聰明乖巧,父 母身體健康,經濟狀況也不錯,也有很好的朋友,可是你還是覺得不滿足,還有好多的煩惱,那就是你不知足,不懂得感恩了。如果我們囿於生活中的“不如意”之 中,終日惴惴不安,那生活就會索然無趣。因為你不知足,不懂得感恩,就會欲壑難填。如你有稱心工作,還會感覺不滿意,去追求更好的工作;你家中有聰慧賢 妻,你還會不滿足,還要到外面去找情人;你家有別墅,與別人一比,你還會感覺自己的差。你這也不滿意,那也不稱心,就會墮入到無法自拔的慾海之中。
 
你知道嗎?人生活在這個世界上,不是所有的人都有別墅、車子、稱心的工作,不是所有的人都擁有健康的身體,不是所有的人家庭婚姻幸福快樂,不是所有的人平 安無事……因此,我們應該擁有一顆感恩的心,就會善於發現事物的美好,感受平凡中的美麗,就會以坦蕩的心境、開闊的胸懷來應對生活中的酸甜苦辣,讓原本平 淡的生活煥發出迷人的光彩。

感恩的心,永遠年輕;感恩的人,永遠快樂;感恩的世界,永遠美好!

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深秋的舊照相片Sep. 2, 2009
深秋的夜,醒了,再難入睡。屋外,北風一輪一輪怒吼著,撲打我的窗櫺。
 
這樣的夜,沒一本情投意合的書,是太痛苦的一件事。打開燈,枕邊卻都是些看了題目就能說出情節甚至遣詞造句的書,儘管書頁未曾翻捲,書紙不曾掉爛,但如拿顯微鏡來,會清晰地看到滿都是我汗浸過的指紋,和點點印在邊角的口水。這漫漫長夜終是難打發的。
 
翻了N遍身,手機打開又關閉,還是睡意闌珊。百無聊賴之中又一次打開手機,把早已捻熟的功能再重新設置一番,情景模式由無聲到標準,再到會議,時間設置從凌晨兩點半再到兩點三十一。膩煩的幾支曲子還不敢聽。罷罷罷,還是看照片吧!
 
閉了眼,一步步打開存儲卡,一張張熟悉的臉孔清晰地在眼前閃過。從第一張開始,仔細揣度每個人的表情動作,和每一根皺紋。
 
第一張,是爺爺的。自去年盛夏的那個正午後,我就遠離了這個稱呼。遠離了這張佈滿慈祥笑紋的熟悉的臉。此後,再沒人是我最慈愛的爺爺,再沒人掂著 長長的煙鍋,輕輕地磕著煙灰,把綿長的歲月彈奏。想他的時候,總是先記起一雙長長的白色眉毛。和那個慈眉善目的長壽老人是那樣相像。前些天,按風俗該給他 燒三週年紙了。和奶奶談起時,就像要去接出門的他回家一樣,很自然的。只不過,他去了那個叫作墳墓的地方。彷彿,他並未離開我們,就悄悄地坐在我們中間。
 
深秋的暖陽懶懶地照著農家小院,爸媽的身影是那樣清晰。父親掄起一把斧頭劈裡啪啦地劈著木柴,旁邊一座山頭的柴已整整齊齊地靠牆排著,靜靜地,呼 吸著暖暖的陽光和空氣。一棵棵柴,和一個60多歲的老人的臉一樣:幹,黑,滿是褶子,那是歲月一層一層的疊加。滿滿寫著歲月的滄桑流逝。
 
又翻過一張,他們剛從果園打藥回來,穿的是農藥廠家的T卹廣告衫,戴著一頂地地道道的草帽,一身泥,一身水地站在我面前。媽還順手掐了幾根菜葉,準備做飯。那菜葉,和他們臉上的表情一樣鮮嫩欲滴,充滿著對秋後豐收的憧憬。
 
女兒純真的笑臉出現在了屏幕上。或是吐著舌頭,或是吃著飯的大口,或是裝成一隻可愛的小白兔,都那樣憨態可掬,讓深夜的我忍俊不禁,發出不合時宜的笑。
 
這其實不是深秋的舊照片,有穿著羽絨服的,有穿著短袖裙子的,還有秋衣毛衫的。這只是於深秋的夜裡在看照片。在狂風呼嘯的深秋的夜裡看照片,多了一些感慨,和一些嚮往。

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Never Change PromiseJul. 8, 2008

Loneliness life,

That is helpless; 香港瑜伽課程

Difficult target-seeking friend,

That is a pleasant surprise!

People are only permanent for a moment for that when living,

That helpless true feelings! 補習導師

Unwilling to stay slightly,

Because the beauty that that share bleeds!

No matter who he is in any case, 舞蹈學校

This way grown must be covered by oneself,

It is not that someone accompany forever that people live, soreccha

There are unalterable perfections forever! eshizuoka

Friend, the way front is not bad and far and so far,

We must go ahead,

However, I will  come back later, blogcosmo

Because, that's the promise that we would never change! 

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Never Forget HappinessJun. 20, 2008
Friendship the things, difficult to understand

I used to think bright memory in the past will never solidify, think the innocent would never disappear, but I was wrong, fault ruthless completely, we're not children anymore, we have already grown up. We have changed.  The world has changed, our heart has changed too.

Remember hour we of Hou? What no matter happen, it is always the first one to think of the other side. So lovely, so lively. I wonder if because the passage of time has gone through too much trials and hardship, the friendship has seemed to already go bad. So extremely dirty. I do not know whether can say so. However, when I see you speaking some in front of the she, as a good friend, than with more unpleasant dirty word, the wind breathes out and blows breathing out, has shaved my face, your one for one sentence words sting the deepest place into my heart. Do I really think really is not nothing in the friendship between us? Because of we innermost things so in the heart, change. Just as the things are put long, it is apt to be rotten and the same.

Remember having a song to call us as a child? Listen to melody that familiar with again and again once, recall get up that we spend together once every second past every, remember when we were chidren, can experience the eyes if close. Experience our once happiness, once smiling face, once tenderness. Then everything has already gone over, has no longer come back again.

The playground of hour of primary school, we write sweat and tear freely and easily. In the classroom, we have left the reading sound of the sound of reading aloud, graduate and take, we show pure white teeth. Have left the most magnificent smile.

Nowadays, though we each have ourown business, however, I will remember our once friendship, but that is just thought fondly of, because we can not be as before again. Even if get back to over, is full of places to remember, but can our heart go back? The happiness which we create, I will never forget.

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Ours, China, 2008! !May. 20, 2008
I am very reticent today, have not basically uttered a sound in MSN group. In these days quickly, hurt and wronged, roused to anger, consider, with Wenchuan, and even the rocking violently of the half a piece of earth of China, and turn into the silent tear.
   
Yes, in work hours, I shed tears silently.

My unable to lift the eyes picture which reads the miserable condition of those disaster areas of every one, make me collapse, a small arm that is stretched out of a site of ruins of Dujiang Weir struggling, it has been already stiff, but still make the posture of holding the schoolbag. That scene, make me have one's face covered with tears quickly.
  
My motherland, bear too many disasters to attack this year, my motherland, have been treated by too much inequity this year, but my motherland, reap enormous shock and move this year - -Natural and man-made calamities, educate several generations especially younger generation totally, let we times can understand " the patriotism " affectedly unconventionally at all, deeply, ocularly too in peace A word.

When China applied for organizing the Olympic Games the delegation laughed Moscow off 7 years ago, I think the most plenty ofly, 2008,what a remote figure. Came in front of us if time is like the swiftness of the lapse of time, 2008 blinks. Perhaps it has been given too much expectation and intension, so as it regards disaster of the world of ice and snow as the prelude, regard a riot keeping on plotting for a long time as the overture, regard an unyielding holy fire defended war in the whole world as the great tutti, derail for the heavy andante by Jiaozhou-Jinan railway train, with the ample disease of mouths of children in order to chant in a low voice, when rock and is regarded as the utterance of sad calls of the high pitch with a earth-shaken one   2008,Become heavy in a moment, heavy difficultly to breathe.
  
My motherland, crossed and robbed the wave to the limit during the past times, during the years now, still face such as a lot of challenges and tests. In the face of testing, what can we do? ?

In only one afternoon, the whip-round in foreign student's forum proposes to follow and stick and reach thousands of in Japan, hold for the dead "  The candle light keeps watch at night "  The planning of the activity, the organizer has already contacted IKEA to buy 1000 candles, somebody is running for the field; China stayed on day the embassy received uncountable inquiry phone numbers, hot line and account that opened contributing money in time; The prime minister of Feitian takes a stand today, plans to send Japan's earthquake to rescue experts to rush for China with the advanced instrument at any time, assist to save the victim of the disaster; Korean and Japanese TV stations broadcast the disaster news rollingly, though commentators will there is a earthquake and link to Tibet question talking a lot of drivel, but I see gratifiedly, Korean and Japanese TV stations type and call the subtitle that Japanese people are the contribution of disaster area of China  

I remit 50,000 Japanese yen to the account of the Chinese embassy. Thereupon surge, it is that one are said not to clean the street unidentified care in the heart.

2008,I realize emotion on blood is thicker than water to so, be ached, ache really originally for the first time; 2008,I experience again too, it is not really a sentence of empty verbiage to be patriotic, see the practical action patriotically. As the Chinese of a life abroad, patriotic, but do oneself well, don't let the person coveting us constantly see the joke, have cause for gossip ridiculed and ridiculed.

2008,We clench one's teeth with motherland. 2008,My tribulation very that my motherland of the regret suffer, but I still want to thank you this special year, it will be destined to imprint a lot of honor and dream, the tear and reviewing, shock and shout loudly, is not knowing which way to go and alarming  
  
2008,Because of your arrival, " motherland " Two words are more and more noble and clear in my heart; With you as me, I will shed tears for your regret, will try my humble effort best for you too.
         
The disaster will go over at last, the inequitable treatment will be imbedded the dust of history at last too, ones that leave, there is only calmness and experienced after years baptism. As you go far, I know, I am sure to think of you.
  
--Ours, China, 2008! ! 

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Olympic Games fieldMay. 7, 2008
I traveled in Beijing from the 7th of September to the 9th of September. I went to the airport after class on the 7th of September. The airport is very near to the my home, so I feel very convenient. The plane that I took took off from Hongchiao Airport of Shanghai at fifteen minutes past one in the afternoon.
       
Two and a half hours later, I reached the Beijing Capital Airport. I feel Beijing is a bit drier than Shanghai, it is a bit hotter. I take the taxi from airport to Beijing inside. While taking the taxi, I chat with the driver. The driver can speak mandarin, so I can probably understand what he spoke.

After reaching the city of Beijing, I have gone to the office of our company. After I have talked with the colleague, we have gone to eat Beijing Roast Duck together. I like Beijing Roast Duck, so I am very glad.
      
The next day, I went to two places. I have gone to the Temple of Heaven Park first, then gone to the stadium of the Olympic Games. I had been to Tian An-men in the past, the Palace Museum, the Great Wall and the Summer Palace, so I did not go to those places this time. The Temple of Heaven is a very famous building. The emperor in Ming Dynasty of 1420 has built the Temple of Heaven Park, the Temple of Heaven Park became the legacy of the world in 1998. I think the Temple of Heaven Park large and beautiful.
      
After looking in the Temple of Heaven Park, I went to the stadium of the Olympic Games. Probably takes 40 minutes from the Temple of Heaven Park to the stadium, because the Temple of Heaven Park is in the south of Beijing, the stadium is in the north of Beijing.
Built in the stadium of the Olympic Games, so I stand and take this photo from the place 500 meters far of stadium of the Olympic Games. People call the stadium of the Olympic Games "  The bird nest " . I think it very interesting outside that stadium. Then, I have seen " the bird nest " The building nearby, that is the swimming pool. I think it very interesting too outside the swimming place.
      
After seeing those buildings, I have gone to the urban area of Beijing by taxi again. I feel that take the taxi in Beijing much more dangerously than in Shanghai, because the pace of the taxi is very fast. While taking the taxi, I have seen two very strange mansions, those mansions all slope a bit. The driver tells me those mansions are the mansion of CCTV, slope 6 degrees, finish until August of 2008. I feel very interesting 風水,Riesling Wine ,Keep Fit,Weight Loss

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